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Do you really know the person you're dating?

Today's dating starts off with a DM, request for email/phone number under an old picture, and or an inbox message. Very rarely do people meet in the club or on the street anymore. It's cool and it's become the norm for this new social generation, but how well do you know the men that you decide to date. When do you decide to ask questions? Get background information on them? Find out their hoefax? Do you jump in on the first date with your hymn book of questions, or do you wait until you're actually interested in the person to start probing?

How many of you women actually take the time to do research on the men you date? How many of you feel funny about asking personal questions? How many of you give up the pussy without knowing where he live or better yet his last name? Do you give him head before knowing the last time he's been to the doctor? Are you more concerned with coming off as nosey so you don't inquire? Or is it you'd rather not know because you don't want to be turned off?

Not gon lie I've met a few guys via social media. & to tell you the truth you kinda just have to be easy on the eyes to feed me. Who cares who you are if we're only going out to eat? All I know is you're hot and I'm hungry HAHA *adjusting my halo* ... No seriously! After the first date if he's done everything right and I think he's cool and I'd like to continue to see him I go hard! I will google you, look through your social pages, do a inmate & sex offender search on you, ask all my friends if they know you & what's your story, & still ask you 101 questions. But, that's just me! You can never be too careful.

There's NO such thing as asking too many questions or doing your own sneaky investigation on him especially if you're planning to sleep with him or have him around your kids. People tell you what they want you to know so it's okay to go behind their backs and search in my opinion. I'd rather be nosey than to be sorry.

Soooo the people have spoken. They miss me... They want the blog back!! That's very touching, and I feel very appreciated. I've taken a little (3 year shameful) break but I'm back friends. Buckle up and enjoy the ride!

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