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Now I know your probably wondering WTH is that? Yea I was scratching my head too! Well the sponge looking item is called Sea Pearls, and the green spoon looking item is called pStyle. They are both made for Woman only... *eyebrow raised*. Okay enough thinking. The Sea sponge is like an organic reusable tampon... LMAO stop laughing!!! & the spoon thingy is an object used to pee standing up! You don't know how many times I've said I wish I was a man so that I didn't have to squat, or so I can pee on a tree when I really had to go LOL but never would I have thought that some idiot would really make that thought a reality. Here is the info on both items:

• Sea Pearls are completely natural reusable sea sponge tampons containing no Dioxin or synthetic fibers. Sustainably harvested and reusable for three to six months or more, Sea Pearls are easy to use, economical, and earth friendly. Rest assured, we are NOT using sponges harvested from the Gulf of Mexico!Sea Pearls are extremely comfortable, soft, and textured much like the vaginal wall. They can be custom trimmed to fit your unique form, so you won't even notice they are there! Sponges are naturally very absorbent, and can also be used during sex. Some women choose to use them for contraception with a spermicide of their choice.
  Sea Pearls are convenient - no more running to the store for emergency tampons. Compared to the cost of conventional single use tampons and pads, our reusable Sea Pearls save you money and you will never again need to worry about polluting the environment with used feminine hygiene products. Can you believe the average woman uses nearly 17,000 disposable pads and tampons throughout her lifetime? In North America alone, an estimated 20 billion bleached pads and tampons end up in our landfills and sewage systems each year!So for your reproductive health and comfort, for the planet, for a change. . . try Sea Pearls!
  
  
• The pStyle is a plastic device that allows you to pee standing up without undressing. It is a simple design that works exceptionally well. The pStyle is easy to position properly and the rounded edges are very comfortable. Because it is made of rigid plastic, the pStyle is easily maneuvered into the clothes you are wearing. The rounded back edge can be used to wipe with so there are no drips! It is easy to clean by shaking vigorously or rinsing.
  People often ask "Why would I want to stand up and pee?" Until they see it in action they have trouble visualizing why it would be advantageous. It's all about convenience, comfort, and safety. You keep your outfit on which means you don't expose yourself to other people or the elements. No need to grapple with something that is hard to remove such as a ski suit, backpack, or caving suit. If you have trouble sitting or squatting or don't want to for any reason - you don't have to. It is faster, easier, and safer to pee whenever you need to!
  Here are some examples of times when a pStyle comes in handy:
  • Outdoor activities - camping, back packing, skiing/snowboarding, rock climbing, bike trips, kayaking trips, hiking, caving, horseback riding, hunting, fishing• Outdoor work - farming, ranching, landscaping, construction, gardening• Travel and public events - music festivals, road trips, using urinals, any place with limited or unsavory public toilets• Physical reasons - sprained or broken bones, knee problems, FTMs
  

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Why do age seem to be a big deal in the average 5+ year age difference relationships? When does younger than you become too young for you? How do you determine when someones too old for you. Do you base your standards on what society feels is too young or too old? Okay let me take a step back! Ummm I'm not talking about a 27 year old and a 16 year old. I'm talking about two adults both over the age of 18 (that is legal isn't it?). Society has built this acceptance with older men and younger women but on the flip side they've frowned upon older women with younger men. Why?


I'm 26 and currently my boyfriend is 30. I feel that's a good gap. (Men are much younger than their actual birth age so they say) so we're kinda on the same level. Hence the word kinda because 30's the new 20... Go figure! Anyway personally I wouldn't date anyone 24 or younger and that's pushing it. My reason is I have a 22 year old brother. Kinda weird dating someone who could possible related to the little knuckle head I picked on for years. Gives me the creeps but whatever floats your boat hey. As far as older... Yea umm I'm not too sure how old I would go. I could give a number but it really depends on your appearance. Granted I will not be with someone older than my dad that's just gross but same age LOL it depends.


I have a friend who shall remain nameless who's a bonifide cougar (Older woman who dates younger men). She's in her 40's and she will date a 25 year old in a heartbeat. I just can't see that in my future! I don't knock her at all, in fact I applaud her efforts but can you honestly get serious with someone 10+ years older or younger than you? Or is that fling territory? I also have a friend my age who is married to a man 15 years her senior. & I must say from the outside looking in that relationship has aged her. She acts older than she is, she dress like a grandma, and she's rid herself of a social life because he doesn't fit in. So my question is: Does age matter? Can it create a problem or is it okay to go above & below the 5 year mark?

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• I hate to be touched in my sleep: Unless drunk if I share a bed with someone (including my child) I get absolutely minimal sleep. The slightest touch wakes me, and throughout the night whomever is laying next to me is bound to venture over that imaginary line.
• I don't like watermelon!: I think I may be the only blackanese girl in the world who doesn't like watermelon. It's like the next best thing to fried chicken to us colored folk *shrugs*
• I treat my body like a European slob: I know I know I'm too pretty for that.... Oh well!! I hate shaving and I don't like to put on lotion - sue me!! *secret inside info* I only shave in the summer and I only put on lotion when I'm wearing a dress LMAO #dontjudgeme
• I'm extremely sensitive: I've built up the hardest toughest shell I could possible build. Those who aren't particularly close to me would say I'm the total opposite of sensitive actually they may say I lack sensitivity, but those people particularly close to me will tell you I'm very sensitive so much so it's scary. IDK I'm a cancer it's in me.
• If I say I'm going to call you right back: I'M LYING!
• I NEVER change my toothbrush: Until recently I've had the same toothbrush since college LMFAO yes I know that's nasty as hell and unsanitary but who give a hell? Not me obviously. & to get even more personal I'll tell you something only my boyfriend and close friends know... I only brush my teeth if I'm going outside AHAHAHAHA! I'f I'm staying in the house I refuse to brush my teeth LML. But some how I manage to keep white teeth and fresh breath - HEY!!!...what can I say it's a talent.
• I have 2 tattoo's, 4 piercings, I have all my wisdom teeth, my natural color hair is brindle brown (dyed black for ethnicity purposes), I'm 5'5, I weigh 153, I wear a small/medium top; 4 or 29 bottom; my shoes are a 9, and lastly I'm an insomniac!

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So I have a friend who needs some answers. I mean I have the answers for her but she doesn't wanna listen to me. So I'm gonna blog about her situation and see what you people have to say.

Since she's my friend you know about what age she is... She's happily married with kids and has been for a while now. She likes her job and her home life is pretty good (can't complain). HOWEVER she's having the urge all of a sudden to cheat. Ahhh I wouldn't even say cheat. More to be out there. In the single people mix. Get attention, have fun (single people fun), meet new people (guys). And although her home life is good she still longs for that life.

Now! We've talked about this plenty of times and since I'm alwaysconvinced I'm convinced she needs some new friends! That's my answer. She says she has married friends but they're lame. LOL I mean I know I'm fun but home girl you can't hang around me! You can't call me and listen to my club stories. You can't look at the pictures of my trips with the girls. That's motivation to wanna live my life (not my life literally but the single life). I'm a bad influence and all your other single friends are too!! Now don't get me wrong you can have single friends but theres a limit to your closeness. Birthdays, holidays, and facebook that's IT. I know ya'll married people gonna say NOOO that's not true but please miss me with your reasons I'm convinced.

I'm not gonna lie I wanna get married like borderline (psycho) about it. I got my ring picked out, wedding dress designer, and bridesmaids (well I dropped a few bitches over the years) but you get me. However I'm honestly happy to be single(figuratively not literally) right now in my life. I'm young, dumb, living carefree making my mistakes now and not when I'm 32 cus I got tied down too early. But... Know that when I DO get my Tiffany & co. diamond and walk down that isle I'm cutting my time in half with all you bitches reading. You will NOT be telling me how much fun you and the girls had in Vegas. Or how fine the guys were in Jamaica. Call me when you get pregnant I'll come to the shower, call me when you get engaged I'll come get fitted for my dress, and call me when you get dumped I'll still be that ear. Other than that HOLLA *in my Frankie voice*

Back to my friend... She doesn't seem to think I'm right! She thinks she's at a peak. WTF?!?! WTF is a peak??? *rolling my eyes* child please. Anyway I need ya'll to either share your stories or give some advice. Cus I aint married I honestly don't know what the hell is the girls problem. Maybe it's just the inner slore in her tryna come out. IDK but I told her what I think.

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