convincingly so...

If you have OCD or a slight case of it then you probably don't wanna touch your cell phone ever again. It's the most germ induced product you come in contact with on a daily basis. Well here's a product just for you. Pop your cell phone in this thing-a-majig for 5 minutes and waala your phone is 99% free of germs. There are UV lights that are used in hospitals that kill off bacteria such as E. coli, Salmonella, & H1N1. This device takes 3 AA batteries & have lifetime UV lights. Oh and the good thing is it's not just for cell phones, it works for Mp3 players, ear phones, & bluetooth. This is a great gift for someone who's health conscious! At a price of 49.95 I say it's a good buy.

I often ask myself what does it take to be a wife and not just a wifey?? I'm no relationship expert but I'm gonna give you my top ten reasons your a wifey & not a wife...

1. He wants both worlds: He wants his cake and eat it too. He want the benefits of a relationship while still being technically free to do what he want. Divorces cost too much so getting caught with a wife vs. wifey is costly & he ain't stupid.
2. His friends: If the company he keeps are all single then he probably wants to be single too. Guys like to share the same lifestyle. If one of his boys get married within a few years they will all start to get married
3. He has skeletons in his closet: I know I know, who doesn't? His might not be your average I got another girl... No his is the I'm married with a family stashed away somewhere. Maybe he's bisexual confused shiiid it is 2K10 who knows.
4. He doesn't love you: He like you a lot... but he doesn't love you and surely isn't in love with you. He loves the relationship ya'll have but that's about it. Sorry honey it's not you he's just not the I love you type move on.
5. He's been hurt before: When a guy is hurt that is like a child losing a parent. They just can't handle it. Ladies I know they can hurt us but it's different when we hurt them. They tend to have hatred for women for a long time after & it's very hard to get over.
6. He doesn't want kids or does want kids: Maybe he doesn't want kids and he know you do, or you have to damn many for him. Or he wants kids & you don't and he know that will be a big problem.
7. He's against marriage: Some men don't have any productive long lasting role marriages and are against marriages thinking they won't work out because he doesn't know any that has.
8. He's doesn't feel financially stable enough: Maybe your too high maintenance for him. You ask for too much. You expect the good life and he's not able to provide that so he doesn't wanna move forward knowing he can't live up to your expectations.
9. He's afraid of change: Some guys aren't gonna admit it but they are afraid of change. They're used to the bachelor lifestyle and bringing in a second party maybe a bit much for them.
10. He wants his freedom: He simple don't want a commitment.

BTW people whoever will be marrying me will be purchasing that ring (pictured above) that's my dream ring. From the Tiffany & co. collection the name is NOVO. price kept private LOL!!! I'll probably stay a wifey for reason #8 *shrugs* I don't care.

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Personally I don't like your clean cut straight and narrow square type of dude. I do believe I'm scared of boredom. #dontjudgeme! I've dated both your average good guy and also your average bad guy, and I must say the bad guy was more fun hands down. I mean I'm not your typical good girl. I've made some not so good decisions in my life but ultimately I'm not a lazy, live wit my momma, no job, gov't check collecting, baby maker. I went to college (Yes I dropped out) but nonetheless I went. I have a child outta wedlock but at least I was out on my own in my own apartment making my own decision like a responsible adult. In addition I've always held a job and never depended on NOBODY to take care of me. So I'm some what of a good girl, not all the way good but could be worst. The thing is I always attract the "I don't ever wanna get married" type guys. Or the "I'm not looking for a girl right now" dude but will be ready to jump my bones SMH. But is it that I attract these dudes or are they what I'm attracted to?

My life is cut and dry pretty boring I think. I seriously like the drama, spice, fun a bad guy brings to my life. I mean don't get me wrong that cheating bullshit that most of you think I'm referring to is absolutely not what I'm talking about. I can't deal with that because I'd be in jail. I'm known for doing some crazy shit! So I'm really talking about the I don't give a damn what people think about me type attitude. The party dude, the hustler, or the bully HA! I like foreigners too LOL IDK why I just do. Let's just say all the other guys are boring as hell and would get on my last nerve after awhile.

Also I have a dominant personality. If I could run over my man I would. Who wants to deal with a push-over? I mean some of you will but I don't. I would boss him around and yell at him. I can be the girlfriend from hell when I've realized your a doormat. Again #dontjudgeme!!! I need a guy to tell me when I've gone to far & I need to watch myself. I like to party a lot (go figure)... I need a guy to tell me to sit my ass down somewhere. I'm a bonifide brat. My motto is "What Shayna wants Shayna gets" good guys would kill themselves if they can't make that happen. A bad guy would say NO pout if ya want IDC. LOL I guess it all boils down to a challenge.

So for me bad guys are fun and challenging... If your a good girl why do you like bad guys? Tell us!!

There is nothing like a pretty girl with her hair done, clothes nice, shoes bang'n, & chapped lips. C'mon son where they do that at? There are lip balms, chap sticks, & good ole fashion vaseline EVERYWHERE!! Even in the gas station I might add. Ladies this common mistake will kill your whole get-up for the day. Everything about you went from a 10 to a 3 so please try your hardest to never forget your lip gloss.

The dreadful white line: usually caused by thick sticky lip gloss such as MAC lip glass. It's also caused by simply being hungry. Don't ask me why but yes hunger will give you the white line. All I know is that's a line you do not want!! It's horrible and kinda makes you look like you have the nasty girl disease LOL but seriously when purchasing lip gloss make sure it's not too thick and definitely not sticky.

For those of you who have been looking for the perfect lip gloss. I have a recommendation. Try CO Bigelow (pictured above) from bath and body works. It's my absolute favorite! I buy them in 3's (because it's buy 2 get 1 free of course) but it's worth it. I get compliments on my lip gloss all the time. Who woulda thought? It also serves as a breath mint. For those of you who like stinky food such as myself i.e. onions, garlic etc., after your done eating if there is no gum available just dab a little of the gloss on your tongue and that should hold you over until you get to the nearest gas station. I mean don't put a whole bunch in ya mouth it's not for eating you savages... that's a sure way to get a stomach ache just a tad bit or a lick of the lips after application should do it. So Ladies preserve your sexy and cop you a gloss of any kind, just DO NOT walk around ashy lip!

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