convincingly so...

I often ask myself what does it take to be a wife and not just a wifey?? I'm no relationship expert but I'm gonna give you my top ten reasons your a wifey & not a wife...

1. He wants both worlds: He wants his cake and eat it too. He want the benefits of a relationship while still being technically free to do what he want. Divorces cost too much so getting caught with a wife vs. wifey is costly & he ain't stupid.
2. His friends: If the company he keeps are all single then he probably wants to be single too. Guys like to share the same lifestyle. If one of his boys get married within a few years they will all start to get married
3. He has skeletons in his closet: I know I know, who doesn't? His might not be your average I got another girl... No his is the I'm married with a family stashed away somewhere. Maybe he's bisexual confused shiiid it is 2K10 who knows.
4. He doesn't love you: He like you a lot... but he doesn't love you and surely isn't in love with you. He loves the relationship ya'll have but that's about it. Sorry honey it's not you he's just not the I love you type move on.
5. He's been hurt before: When a guy is hurt that is like a child losing a parent. They just can't handle it. Ladies I know they can hurt us but it's different when we hurt them. They tend to have hatred for women for a long time after & it's very hard to get over.
6. He doesn't want kids or does want kids: Maybe he doesn't want kids and he know you do, or you have to damn many for him. Or he wants kids & you don't and he know that will be a big problem.
7. He's against marriage: Some men don't have any productive long lasting role marriages and are against marriages thinking they won't work out because he doesn't know any that has.
8. He's doesn't feel financially stable enough: Maybe your too high maintenance for him. You ask for too much. You expect the good life and he's not able to provide that so he doesn't wanna move forward knowing he can't live up to your expectations.
9. He's afraid of change: Some guys aren't gonna admit it but they are afraid of change. They're used to the bachelor lifestyle and bringing in a second party maybe a bit much for them.
10. He wants his freedom: He simple don't want a commitment.

BTW people whoever will be marrying me will be purchasing that ring (pictured above) that's my dream ring. From the Tiffany & co. collection the name is NOVO. price kept private LOL!!! I'll probably stay a wifey for reason #8 *shrugs* I don't care.

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